Bombarded By Idiots- What Do I Say?

[journeyfleet]

I'm sure everyone in the LGBTP community has had to deal with this. So, today I'm sitting at a computer at school, being my awkward and brisk self, when I hear, "I dare you to ask Tir out." Not only am I dealing with idiots, but with the guy who should win the "Pervert of the Year" award. I continue taking notes and staring at my computer screen, scribbling facts down about radar.

Then, this son of a biscuit gets way too close and says, "'Ey, Tir. You should be my girlfriend." It really annoyed me. People were laughing in the background. It was like being at a convention for misogynist perverts! I was practically being used for entertainment, plus, I was insanely uncomfortable, being the most stereotypically asexual person ever. Like, ever. I don't bother looking away from my computer screen and reply, "No." I understand that this was cold and maybe a bit uncalled for, but you have to understand, I hate this guy with my heart and soul. I'm not really going to get into that, because it's a long story.

Anyway, his friends are watching, so he keeps trying to beat my into submission. Not physically, but you know, the whole "humiliation and teasing" treatment. He starts getting on my case, and eventually ends with a smirking, "why, are you lesbian?"I kind of snapped at that point.

"No. Asexual. Go away," I said affirmatively, remembering all the times I had googled "how to be assertive". Well, then, he gave me the most annoying look I'd ever seen and starts giving me a hard time about it.

"So, you're going to be alone forever?" Polite enough, if you didn't know this guy. He did the whole polite tone and vile smirk thing, which really bothered me.
"Yes. Or maybe adopt a kid when I'm older."
"Mm, like Katherine. Ever seen a naked man?"
"No. I have no desire to. Go away."

And that's the gist of it. I have to wonder, what do you say when people won't leave you alone and confront you with rude questions and stereotypes? What kind of responses does a person give? Any help, any ideas? I don't have time to explain the whole thing to an idiot who really just wants to get under my shirt.

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[angelicdreams]

Well, when I came out as lesbian in school, I was attacked by a group of girls at gym. Just...bombarded with questions.

They asked me if I'd kissed a girl, why I didn't like guys, etc. etc. Now, I can keep a level head through most of this. I answered their questions the best I could, even though they were complete snarky bitches about it.

But, when Ms. Queen-Snarky-Bitch said, "You know you're going to Hell, right, because you're lesbian? God wouldn't have made men if he wanted lesbians. He doesn't want you. You should just go back to being straight."

I kinda snapped. I mean, I walked off, sat down against the wall, and ignored them since then.

I guess that's not the best way to handle things but, all I can say is, if things are making you uncomfortable, it's best to remove yourself from the situation. It's easier to remove yourself from the situation than say something you'll regret.

If you can sit back and think about what to say, it might be easier to confront them, y'know?

[ilovepercy122]

Alright. So there's been rumors goin around about me and my girlfriend. We try to keep our relationship secret so we're not harassed. It hasn't been working lately. People call us demons, they make gay jokes around us and it's just infuriating.
So I walk into the locker room to see these snarky little whores beating up my girlfriend. Pulling her hair, slapping her, kicking her, the whole bucket.
"Lost it" wouldn't discribe how I reacted. I went fucking half-homicidal.
The girls were down before they could slap her again, each of them on their face or back.. I had a bloody knuckle from accadentally breaking the leader's reading glasses. They weren't expensive, just from the dollar store. Oh my god, they were terrified. They were all begging for MERCY, I scared them so bad.
"If you lay so much as a FINGER on her again, I will not hesitate to do this again, but 10 times worse. Hear me?!"
I helped get my girlfriend all cleaned up, and I got a huge reward--
I scored a kiss on the lips
AAH, it was so amazing XD my gf isn't into PDA- only hugging and holding hands is allowed. But getting a full on kiss is a one in a million chance.
Both good and bad happened today. I'm so glad I saved my girl. For once, I feel proud-Pround to be a bisexual babe ;D lol